In Jon Gordon’s book The Energy Bus he shares, “You got to be strong enough to tell people that you will not allow any negativity on your bus.” In fact, Rule #6 says, “No Energy Vampires Allowed” on your bus. 

There are “energy vampires” that threaten our work. These “energy vampires” blame, complain, and defend their pessimism. It is easy to be negative – it becomes an organizational default if it is permitted to plant roots. We must be purposeful in our actions; we must be intentional in our actions. We must, with skill and purpose, tell people with negative energy that there is no place for negativism in our organization.

Leadership is tough in good times; it takes discipline and skill during challenging times. The tough conversations require us to get our minds right and to step up.  

You know the energy vampires on your team. I bet you are identifying them in your self-talk right now. So, what are you going to do about it? Next time you are confronted by these energy vampires, how will you press pause, get your mind right, and step up? It is predictable – be prepared.

You are strong enough. I have confidence in you. Leadership requires you to be purposeful with your expectation for optimism, to be intentional in demands for behavior, and to be skillful sharing clear expectations. Leadership isn’t easy – be prepared.

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” – Helen Keller 

I have faith. I have faith in our vision, in our values, and in our mission. I have faith in you – in our team. I have faith that we are creating a better future for the next generation of Americans. I am an optimist; I can’t imagine living my life any other way.

We live in challenging times. Pessimism, complaining, and blaming are made easy – for many it is their default. We hear those squeaky wheels and we read those know-it-all critics. From the stands at a sporting event to the talking heads on television, from the editorials in the paper to the posts on social media, there are venues for those with grievances.    

We must drown out the voices of negativity. We must overwhelm the pessimists with our energy, with our purpose, and yes . . . with our optimism. Folks, you are in the wrong business if you don’t believe in the work. Your optimism, your leadership, will lead to great achievement.

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” – Winston Churchill 

We are on a journey together . . . a journey to ready today’s students for tomorrow’s challenges. Our work is simple,  yet incredibly complex. Each day is a battle to stay Above the Line; each day is a struggle to live our lives with intentionality, on purpose, and with skill.  

We are going to be successful; we will grow with our successes. We will experience failures; we will learn from our failures. What we will not do is stop. We will face critics, we will face those who want school to look like it used to look, and we will face those, even within our ranks, who resist our passion for growth. These people – those who operate by default and resist change – will not bring us down.

We have the courage to continue. We are committed to our values; we will be relentless in our pursuit of excellence. The time is now . . . the journey has started. Each and every day summon that courage to continue – that is what counts.

“I am not perfect and strive to fix the problem areas in my life.” – Urban Meyer, 9 Units Strong
No one is perfect; no one is even close. We are all broken; we all live lives of imperfection. We make mistakes each and every day. We fall below the line, we operate by default, and we take the easy road.  

Living a discipline-driven life, living Above the Line, is about identifying our weaknesses and relentlessly striving to improve. It is a journey without a destination; we will never live lives of perfection. We fight the battle each and every day to be the best we can be. We continually strive to fix the problem areas in our lives and to live our lives on purpose.

We have a huge advantage – we are not fighting our battle alone. We are created to live and work in relationships. We are created to be connected; we have a higher purpose and calling. We have a purposeful community; our work isn’t individualistic.  

Build trust and relationships; be disciplined in your desire to grow your community. There is no reason to be alone in your work; live your purpose through and with others.

“My actions, my words, and my attitude are all in alignment with our purpose.” – Urban Meyer
Do what you say and say what you do – this is how we build trust and relationships. It is easy to pontificate about beliefs and expectations, but if our actions don’t match our words it is simply hot air. The events we create for others, the way others experience us, is how we are judged. In education, we create experiences for students, parents, and peers. Are you trust worthy? Are the events you created for others based in integrity?

Now take it a step further – embrace our passion for growth – your attitude must also be aligned with your words and actions. To be elite, to truly inspire others to follow your lead, three aspects must be in alignment.  

It is about heart and inner core . . . it is about a presence . . . when your words, actions, and attitude are all in alignment you reach another level of leadership. 

Are you here yet? If not, what will it take for your inner core – for your attitude – to embrace our focused vision? It’s not easy; it’s too important to be easy. If you are not there yet, don’t give up. Keep working, keeping asking questions, and keep fighting each and every day to live a discipline-driven life.

“Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow know what you truly want to become.” – Steve Jobs

We all have that “inner voice” . . . that internal feeling that serves as our moral compass. Taking the time to trust our heart and intuition, pressing pause and getting our minds right, is essential all in how we react to events we encounter.  

We must be discipline-driven. We must lead our lives with intentionality, on-purpose, and with skill. An essential component of getting above the line – an essential part living lives of discipline – is knowing what we believe in our inner core. Steve Jobs identifies this as “heart and intuition” – that voice, that when we take the time to press pause, knows what we truly want to become.

Be purposeful, yet courageous. Act with intentionality, but without a fear of failure. Build skills, and continue to embrace a growth mindset. We are on a journey together; trust your inner core.

“Things change. A great strategy works until it doesn’t. Sustainable success requires you to adjust & adapt.” – Tim Kight
Change is inevitable . . . just because it worked yesterday, doesn’t mean it is going to work today. This is why we can’t operate in a “command and control” environment. This is why “top down” leadership is, in most cases, not very effective. Leadership isn’t about giving directions. Leadership is about cultivating a direction. 

We need our people to own their 20 square feet. We need to be focused on common goals and aligned with expected behaviors. Change happens too quickly for the leaders to give orders; we need cultivate a culture where everyone in the organization is able to adjust and adapt.

Build your team, create a culture that encourages ownership, and let your team adjust and adapt. Your plan . . . your leadership . . . must be about building capacity, not building compliance.  

I recently had the opportunity to speak with Dr. David Warren, President of the National Association of Independent Colleges and Universities. Dr. Warren marched with Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. from Selma to Montgomery, Alabama. His narrative would bring you to tears; his passion is evident in every word he shares. In our conversation David asked, “Where do you find the place that you put your foot in the ground and push?”  

So I ask you, “Where do you find the place that you place your foot in the ground and push?”Do you push when I ask something of you that is makes your blood boil? Can you speak truth to power? Do you push when an adult is more concerned about comfort rather than students?

What does it take for you to put your foot in the ground?

From me to you . . . I want you to find the place where you push. I want you to be passionate, to be confident, and to be willing to push back. From education to leadership, from individual rights to curriculum, you should trust your inner core.  

When you press pause . . . when you get your mind right . . . what is your inner compass? Are you willing to place your foot in the ground and push?

We are a team; we are only as strong our collective commitment. When we are aligned, focused, and pushing together we can do anything. It all starts with you.